I let my best friend sleep with my boyfriend but I don’t regret it at all
A woman has revealed she let her boyfriend and best friend sleep together because she ‘trusts them 100 per cent’.
Meg, 24, and Owain, 35, appeared on a episode of the YouTube series, Love Don’t Judge, where she discussed bringing her best friend Bonnie into their relationship.
The couple, both of whom are adult content creators, met just over a year ago while shooting a video and have a relationship ‘built on sexual openness’.
Both parties sleep with other people regularly for work.
Meg, who said she identified as bisexual, sleeps with both men and women and also works as an escort with regular clients, while Owain recently began exploring his ‘bi-curious’ side and filming with male performers.
But introducing Bonnie into their dynamic left Meg feeling ‘nervous’ yet ‘excited’.
In the episode, Bonnie went over to Meg and Owain’s home to sleep with him.
She said she was ‘a little bit surprised’ about the invitation but she also ‘knew it was coming’.
Meg revealed it was Owain who suggested that he sleep with Bonnie, but she ‘wasn’t really shocked’ at the idea.
‘It didn’t feel weird, like oh, he wants to sleep with my friend because she’s friends with the two of us and we’re always cuddling,’ she explained.
Bonnie added: ‘We’re all just so close. It felt normal. We were all just having a joke around and we were all having a flirt with each other. Nothing harmful.
‘And then she just kind of came out with it and went, “Do you want to sleep with Owain?” I was like, “What?”‘
Bonnie admitted that she said yes because having sex with Owain was ‘something that interests me’.
‘I have never slept with Owain before. But I have thought about it,’ she confessed.
The trio were then seen sitting around Meg and Owain’s dinner table to discuss how the day would go over a cup of tea.
Meg insisted she felt ‘very comfortable’ because the three of them were ‘always cuddling and giving each other kisses’.
Bonnie said she had ‘been there since the beginning’ of Meg and Owain’s relationship, adding: ‘You know how much I love you two together. So she trusts me 100 per cent. And that is a massive thing, isn’t it?’
However, Meg admitted she felt ‘nervous’ about Bonnie sleeping with Owain.
‘I’m nervous because I don’t know how it’s going to go,’ she said. ‘I don’t know what you’re going to get up to. I don’t know if you’re going to push our limits. I think it’s because we’ve never done it before without being in the room.
‘But I am really excited because obviously I wouldn’t be so on board otherwise.’
Bonnie chimed in and said she felt ‘very honoured and special’ to have been invited to sleep with Owain.
Looking at Owain, Meg asked how he would feel if she were to sleep with one of his best friends.
‘Because obviously I’m letting you sleep with my best friend. Would you let me sleep with one of your best friends?’ she asked.
Owain appeared to hesitate for a moment and replied: ‘Depends on who you want to sleep with.’
Later, he added: ‘Yeah, why not? Swings and roundabouts, isn’t it? If I’m allowed to do it, you’re allowed to do it.’
After they finished their teas, Owain and Bonnie both kissed Meg goodbye – with Meg telling Owain not to ‘have too much fun’ and they headed upstairs while Meg stayed in the kitchen.
‘I’m feeling quite nervous. I’m not going to lie, now that it’s actually happening but really excited at the same time,’ Meg repeated to the cameras once Owain and Bonnie left the room.
‘Do I think it’s going to affect the friendship? I don’t think so, because we’re all so close anyway.
‘If she somehow didn’t enjoy it, maybe it might be a bit awkward afterwards,’ she joked.
‘I don’t think it will affect mine and Owain’s relationship. I think, if anything, it will bring us closer. I’m definitely going to be asking him quite a few questions. All night he’s going to be bombarded with questions.’
Although Meg insisted she was ‘excited’ to hear about whether she and Bonnie were ‘different’ in the bedroom, she said it would ‘absolutely kill me inside’ if Owain admitted he had ‘a better time with my best friend’.
‘I’d probably be really upset. I would ask for some tips then on how I can improve.’
After Owain and Bonnie finished doing the deed, they returned to the kitchen together and Meg immediately asked them how it went.
While putting on her shoes to leave, Bonnie said they ‘had a really good time’ but that she was leaving to give the couple space to discuss the events of the day.
Once she and Owain were alone, Meg confessed that she had been worried she would ‘regret it happening’ – but said she had ‘no regrets’ in the end.
Owain said he would ‘do it again’ and that they should ‘all get involved next time’.
The couple later spoke about joining a dating website and getting ‘hate’ for being a ‘couple looking for other couples or singles’ to sleep with.
‘A lot of people were saying, “You just obviously don’t love each other” or “you obviously aren’t happy with one another”,’ Owain revealed.
But he explained that, at the end of the day, he and Meg can ‘go do all that and then come back to the person that you are’.
‘People question it and they find it really bizarre,’ Meg continued.
‘This is the lifestyle that we want to live and this is the dynamic of our relationship.’