In May of 1964, at seventy-seven, Marjorie Merriweather Post was divorced for the fourth time. The end had arrived on her desk in photographs of her husband with younger men beside the pool at Mar-a-Lago, her own house in Palm Beach, and then a demand for money. She took back the name her father had given her. Every husband was gone.

The company she had inherited, the palace on the ocean, and the house in Washington were all still hers, and all of them would outlast her. So why could the woman who kept everything she built never keep a man? She had been a bride four times since 1905, and each marriage had ended the same way, with the men gone and everything else in her hands. The answer begins with the first man she ever watched run things, her father, and with a girl who learned his business before she learned anything else.

In February of 1891, a broken man arrived at a sanitarium in Battle Creek, Michigan, with his wife and his small daughter. His name was Charles William Post, called C. W. by everyone.

He had already failed at more things than most men try. He had sold farm machinery. He had built an agricultural works in Springfield, Illinois and lost it. He had invented things that nobody bought.

In December of 1887, the year his only child was born, the family had moved to Fort Worth, Texas, following business setbacks. Somewhere along that road his nerves had given way, and then again and again. One local history counts seven breakdowns. The place he came to for help was the Battle Creek Sanitarium, run by the Kellogg brothers.

The cure did not work. By the family’s own account, what finally worked was a Christian Science healer, and his little girl would hold to Christian Science for the rest of her life. Her name was Marjorie Merriweather Post. She had been born on March 15th, 1887, in Springfield, Illinois, to Ella Letitia Merriweather Post.

There was no money in the house when she was born and there would not be for some years yet. The first thing she learned about money was that it could vanish. Her father stayed in Battle Creek. He began to experiment with grain drinks, a substitute for coffee.

On January 1st, 1895, he incorporated the Postum Cereal Company and named his first product Postum. A cereal called Grape-Nuts followed, then a breakfast cereal launched as Elijah’s Manna until objections to the biblical name, including one from the British government, made him rename it Post Toasties. What C. W.

Post understood better than almost anyone alive was advertising. He promised the country a great deal and paid to say so everywhere, spending more than a million dollars a year and becoming one of the five largest advertisers in the nation. Within about ten years of that first drink, the company was worth roughly ten million dollars, and by 1901 the man who had once sold farm machinery was earning more than a million dollars a year. The claims were bolder than the cereal.

Grape-Nuts was advertised as a help against ailments, including appendicitis. Collier’s Weekly attacked the claims in 1907, and in 1910 a libel case went against him with an award of fifty thousand dollars, later overturned. After that, the company dropped its health claims. It was a small detail then.

It would not stay small. Through all of it, his daughter was at his side. The family’s company history says she began attending board meetings with him at about the age of ten. She remembered pasting labels onto jars.

Her biographer has her gluing cereal boxes in her father’s barn. As a girl, she was given stock in the company, one account putting its worth at three million dollars by the time she was sixteen. Her father put into words what he saw in her, and decades later she repeated it to a reporter from Time. “My father once said that if I were cast ashore on a desert island, I’d organize the grains of sand.

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She was sent to Washington to school, to Mount Vernon Seminary, enrolling in 1902 and finishing in 1904. That was the year her parents’ marriage ended. Charles and Ella Post were divorced on October 28th, 1904. On November 16th, less than three weeks later, her father married his secretary, a young woman named Leila Young.

Marjorie was seventeen. What she learned from it, she would show in her own life four times over. Many years later, when she was close to eighty, a reporter asked her what had shaped her. Her answer took two words.

“My father. ” It is the shortest answer in the record of her life, and perhaps the most complete. Everything that came after began in that barn, in that sanitarium, at that board table, with a brilliant and breakable man, and the daughter who learned his business before she learned anything else. She had his drive.

She had his habit of order. She had his company, or would. What she did not have at seventeen was any idea of how to choose a man. And at eighteen, she married one.

The newspapers did the arithmetic before the wedding did, predicting a prominent place in the younger set because the bride was twice a millionaire. That was how one New York paper put it in 1905. Whatever else the groom brought, she brought the money. His name was Edward Bennett Close.

She had met him when she was sixteen. He was a lawyer trained at Columbia, from an old family in Greenwich, Connecticut, which was everything her own family was not. His people had been settled and respectable for generations. Hers had made their fortune very recently out of cereal and newspaper advertisements.

For a girl from Battle Creek, a husband from Greenwich was a door into a world her father’s money could buy but could not quite enter. On paper, it was a fair exchange. They married in December of 1905. The records do not quite agree on the day.

Two directories give the 3rd of December. Her biographer, writing for the Saturday Evening Post, gives the 5th. Either way, she was eighteen. Her father was generous in the way he knew best.

He gave the newlyweds a large check and built them a house in Greenwich, an eleven-bedroom place called The Boulders. It was a handsome gift and a telling one. The house was in the husband’s town, among the husband’s people. But the man who paid for it was the bride’s father.

In this first marriage, as in every one that followed, the money ran from her side of the house to his. Children came quickly. Adelaide was born in 1908. Eleanor followed in 1909.

Those two little girls would both live long lives, Adelaide until 1998 and Eleanor until 2006. Eleanor would marry six times herself, once to the film director Preston Sturges, as though the pattern had been handed down along with the money. In Greenwich, in those first years, they were simply the children of a marriage that was already coming apart at the seams. Inside the house, the fit was poor from the start.

He disapproved of her Christian Science. To a conventional Connecticut lawyer, the faith that had saved her father looked like eccentricity. He disapproved, too, of her taste for living lavishly. She had been raised by a man who spent a million dollars a year telling the country what to buy, and she saw no reason to be small about anything.

She, for her part, found Greenwich society stuffy, the same dinners, the same people, the rules set long before she arrived. And she thought her husband drank too much. There was one more problem, and to her father it mattered most of all. C.

W. Post had a company to hand on and only a daughter to hand it to. In his world, a daughter’s husband was supposed to be the man who would run it. Her father looked at his son-in-law and saw, as her biographer puts it, that Edward Close had no real interest in leading Postum.

He was a lawyer. He was content to be a lawyer. He had married the company without wanting it. In October of 1912, her mother died in her sleep in Washington.

Ella Post had been the one left behind when her husband married his secretary. Marjorie was twenty-five. What she was building in those Greenwich years was a habit she would keep for life. She ran things.

She organized the household, the staff, the calendar, the children. Her father’s old line about the desert island fit her better every year. What Greenwich did not give her was a husband who wanted to run anything alongside her. Then, in the spring of 1914, her father began to suffer pain in his stomach that no doctor could relieve, and everything that had been his began very quickly to become hers.

C. W. Post had been rushed across the country by chartered train to the Mayo Clinic, and the operation had not stopped the pain. That was March of 1914.

He believed he had appendicitis. The Mayo brothers operated on him themselves, and when he went home to Santa Barbara, California, the pain was still there. On May 9th, 1914, he shot himself. He was fifty-nine years old.

His daughter is not recorded speaking openly about his death, and one detail sits heaviest of all. Years earlier, his company had advertised Grape-Nuts as a help against ailments, including appendicitis. The man who had sold the country a cure for the illness he believed was killing him could not cure himself. If Marjorie ever talked about that, nobody wrote it down.

She was twenty-seven and suddenly very rich indeed. The best documented figure for what she inherited is about twenty million dollars. The Washington Post said twenty-seven million. Looser accounts run as high as thirty-three.

Whatever the number, it came with the company, which by then was bringing in nearly twenty million dollars a year in sales. Her father’s will divided the company between his daughter and his second wife, Leila. Marjorie disputed it. In 1915, the two women settled out of court.

Leila gave up her shares for six million dollars, and Marjorie owned the whole of her father’s company. It was a negotiation against another woman for a man’s legacy, and she won it outright. She did not sit on its board. A woman did not then represent herself at the table of a great American company, and so a man went in her place.

The man was her husband. Edward Close, who had never wanted to run Postum, took a seat on its board to represent his wife’s interests. The owner stayed home. It would be twenty-two years before she took a seat at that table in her own name, and another husband would come and go before she did.

Then came the war. When America entered it, Close went to France as a major in the army and served well enough to be decorated by the French, coming home with the French Médaille d’Honneur. His wife stayed in New York, and what she did there changed her more than anything that had happened in Greenwich. She paid for and equipped an entire army field hospital, base hospital number eight, at Savenay in France.

Her first shipment of supplies sailed on a ship called the Saratoga, which was accidentally sunk in New York Harbor with everything aboard. She sent the whole shipment again, at once, on the Finland. She had inherited something like twenty million dollars, and now she spent about seventy-five thousand dollars on a hospital of more than two thousand beds on another continent for soldiers she would never meet. Four decades later, France would make her a commander of the Legion of Honor.

In October of 1917, she joined a delegation of New York suffragists who went to the White House to lobby President Woodrow Wilson for the vote. She built a new circle of sophisticated friends. Her biographer describes what happened in plain words. She had grown increasingly independent, and the war had enabled her to consider the possibilities of another existence.

When her husband came home, the woman he had left was gone. In her place was a woman who owned a large company, had run a hospital from across an ocean, had stood in the White House to ask for the vote, and had discovered that she did not need Greenwich at all. They were divorced in 1919. There is no famous scene on record, and the record of the decree says little more than the year.

She kept both daughters. After fourteen years, the marriage simply ended the way a lease ends. Close’s own story went on without her. He married again, a woman named Elizabeth Taliaferro, and through that second marriage he became the grandfather of the actress Glenn Close, no relation of Marjorie’s.

He would die in Greenwich in February of 1955, by one record, at almost exactly the moment Marjorie was ending her third marriage. He had left her life thirty-six years before he left his own. She was thirty-two years old. She was free, rich beyond any measure her father had known, and sole owner of the business she had learned at his elbow.

It did not last long. Within a year, she would marry a man from Wall Street who was everything Edward Close was not, and very soon he would be sitting at the head of the board of the company she owned. Edward Francis Hutton had known her for years. In 1919, the two of them fell in love.

He was a Wall Street man, the founder of the brokerage house that carried his name, E. F. Hutton and Company. He was twelve years older than she was, born in 1875, and he was everything her first husband had not been.

Edward Close had been a lawyer with no interest in running Postum. Edward Hutton was a broker who lived on deals. Of all four of her husbands, he was the one who came closest to being her equal, and one writer has called him, reportedly, the love of her life after her father. They married in July of 1920.

Again, the sources do not agree on the day. Two directories give July 7th. Her biographer gives July 20th. The bride was thirty-three.

The groom had a brokerage, a reputation, and an appetite. The next turn is the strangest fact in the whole story, and it happened quietly in boardrooms without any scandal at all. Hutton became president of the Postum Company after the wedding. He took a seat on its board.

By 1923, he was chairman of the board. The company belonged to his wife. Her father had built it. She had learned it at ten years old, pasting labels and gluing boxes.

She had fought her stepmother for it and paid six million dollars to own it outright. And the man at the head of its table, the man listed as its chairman, was her husband. She could not take that chair herself. Her money made his chairmanship.

His chairmanship spoke for her money. And she wanted a great deal done. In 1922, the company went public. Then, through the second half of the decade, it went shopping.

In 1925, Jell-O and Maxwell House. In 1927, Baker’s chocolate and Log Cabin Syrup. In 1928, Calumet and Sanka. In 1929, Certo, Hellmann’s, and the company that would become Bird’s Eye.

That same year, the business C. W. Post had started with one grain drink in a barn in Battle Creek took a new name, the General Foods Corporation. It was the largest food company in the United States.

The Bird’s Eye purchase was hers, and the story of it shows exactly how the marriage worked. Around 1926, she was cruising near Gloucester, Massachusetts, when she was served a roast goose. She was struck by how good it was and learned that it had been frozen by a new method developed by a man named Clarence Birdseye. Birdseye had learned fast freezing from the practice of the Inuit in Labrador and had built a small company around the idea.

What she seems to have seen tasting the goose was simple enough. Food frozen at its best could be carried anywhere and eaten in any season. She wanted to buy the company. Her husband did not.

Hutton resisted for about three years. The details of the argument are lost, but the outcome is in the books. By the time General Foods finally bought Birdseye’s business in 1929, the price had risen to about twenty-two million dollars. She had once hoped to get it for something like two million.

One business history puts the final price at about ten times the earlier one. Those few lines hold the whole marriage in miniature. Her judgment, his hesitation, her persistence, and a bill ten times higher than it might have been. Frozen food went on to remake the American kitchen.

It was her idea, and her husband had held it up for three years. By the 1930s, she was being called the richest woman in America. There was a child of the marriage too. In December of 1923, the year her husband became chairman, she gave birth to a third daughter.

They named her Nedenia Marjorie Hutton. Decades later, the world would know her by the name she chose for the stage, Dina Merrill, and she would become an actress with more than a hundred film and television credits. Of the three girls, she was the only one Hutton fathered. She would later say something revealing about the two people who raised her.

Her parents did not support her ambition to act, and she did not ask them to pay. “It never occurred to me to ask my father or mother to pay for something they didn’t believe in. My ambitions were my own, not exactly the ones they had for me. ” She modeled for ten dollars an hour rather than take the family’s money.

The richest woman in America owned a company she was not allowed to run. It did not seem to trouble the marriage at first. They were too busy, too successful, and they had begun together to build something on a scale that even Battle Creek had never imagined. It began with a modest promise.

She told him she wanted to build a little cottage by the sea. “You know Marjorie said she was going to build a little cottage by the sea,” Hutton liked to say. “Look what we got. ” What they got was Mar-a-Lago.

The name means sea to lake, and the house runs exactly that far, across about seventeen acres of Palm Beach, from the Atlantic Ocean on one side to Lake Worth on the other. Work began in 1923. It was finished by one account in January of 1927. The architect was Marion Sims Wyeth.

The interiors were given to Joseph Urban, a Viennese designer who had worked for the Ziegfeld Follies, and it shows. The house has the feeling of a stage set built to last forever. About six hundred workers built it. Three boatloads of Dorian stone came from Genoa.

Tens of thousands of old Spanish tiles, some of them centuries old, were laid. Black and white marble for the floors, and thousands of roof tiles came out of a dismantled castle in Cuba. Gold leaf was laid on almost everything that would hold it. The living room alone ran to about 1,800 square feet under a ceiling forty-two feet high.

About seventeen acres. About six hundred workers over four years. Fifty-eight bedrooms and thirty-three bathrooms. Figures the sources agree on even when they disagree about the total count of rooms, which is given as 115, 118, or 126.

A tower, seventy-five feet high, with an observation deck, something like 36,000 antique tiles, and a price that the sources cannot settle, two million dollars in one account, two and a half in another, eight in a third, with seven million the figure most often cited. Mar-a-Lago was not the only thing. In the Adirondacks, on Upper St. Regis Lake, she had acquired a camp around 1920 and began to expand it from 1923.

It became Camp Topridge, a world of about sixty-eight buildings on about 207 acres, with about eighty-five staff. Every guest cabin had its own butler. Guests rode up the ridge to the main lodge on a little funicular railway. They arrived by air at Saranac Lake, went on by car, and then by boat, and found a dining room that seated thirty and more than twenty-five fireplaces waiting for them.

In New York, at 1107 Fifth Avenue, she kept a triplex of fifty-four rooms with its own private entrance and its own elevator on a lease of seventy-five thousand dollars a year. The staff there was said to number at least seventy. It was reported to be the first true penthouse in the city and its largest apartment. And then, there was the yacht.

In 1931, at the Krupp shipyard in Kiel, Germany, a ship that Hutton had commissioned was launched, a four-masted sailing ship with a hull about 316 feet long and twenty-nine sails. She was christened Hussar. She cost more than a million dollars. She took a course in marine engineering so that she would understand the ship, and she had full-size mock-ups of its rooms built in a warehouse in New York before a single wall went in.

In the owner’s suite, the taps were gold and shaped like swans. It was the largest private sailing yacht in the world. That same year, 1931, her daughter Eleanor gave her a birthday present. Eleanor had gone to Hammer Galleries and bought an Easter egg made by the House of Fabergé for the Russian Imperial Family.

It was the Catherine the Great Egg of 1914, enameled all over in a soft rose pink, and once a gift from the last Tsar, Nicholas II, to his mother. Inside it, when it was new, there had been a surprise. It was a tiny mechanical sedan chair carrying a figure of the Empress Catherine. A daughter had given her mother a jeweled egg with a little chair inside made to be opened and wondered at.

All of this was being built while the marriage was quietly wearing through. The arguments came in three kinds, and her biographer traces each of them. The first was money. Mar-a-Lago’s cost was enormous even by the standards of the very rich, and Hutton, who had joked about the cottage, was less amused by the bills.

The second was business. The years he spent resisting Bird’s Eye were years in which she watched her own judgment overruled by her own husband in her own company, and then saw it proved right at ten times the price. The third was politics, and it went deeper than either. When the Depression came, the two of them looked at the same country and saw different things.

By 1932, Marjorie was backing Franklin Roosevelt and attending the Democratic convention. Hutton loathed the New Deal. He wrote an essay for the Detroit Free Press attacking the president’s relief policies, saying Roosevelt was adopting as his own the rabble-rousing battle cry of soaking the rich. His wife, by her biographer’s account, was appalled.

She was also by then putting her own money where her politics were. From 1931, she funded a canteen that fed about a thousand people a day. The women and children waited for their meals in a heated waiting room and were served at tables in a dining room rather than in a line in the street. Her husband criticized the spending.

Marriages have survived worse. Theirs might have survived this. What it could not survive was what she discovered next inside her own house about her husband and her maid. The richest woman in America, by her biographer’s account, laid silk threads across a doorway in her own house.

Edward Hutton had been unfaithful before. The record of the marriage is a record of repeated affairs. But the one that ended it was closer to home than the rest. According to her biographer, in her book and again in a later article for the Saturday Evening Post, he was carrying on an affair with a maid in their own household.

The Saturday Evening Post calls her a French maid. The biography describes her as a live-in maid. Under the law of the day, knowing was not enough. In New York in the 1930s, adultery was the ground for divorce that counted, and it had to be shown.

So Marjorie set out to show it. What she did next is the single most vivid scene in all four marriages, and it comes from her biographer, who described it this way. Miss Post set elaborate traps for her husband involving bells, silken threads, and talcum powder to detect footprints. Picture the house at night.

A woman of forty-seven or forty-eight who owned the largest food company in the United States, who had built a palace on the ocean and a ship to sail it, moving through her own corridors after dark. A silk thread stretched low across a doorway to be broken by a passing ankle. A small bell placed where a door would brush it. A fine dusting of talcum powder on the floor outside a room to take the print of a footstep.

Her father had once said she could organize the grains of sand. She was organizing powder now to catch a husband. The traps, by her biographer’s telling, worked. She had her proof.

There is no record of the night she found it or of what she said to him. Her biographer, writing decades later, put the end down to two things working together. The maid and the essay in the Detroit Free Press. The private betrayal and the public one arrived in the same season, and either one, perhaps, might have been forgiven alone.

What there is is the paperwork. In August of 1935, Time magazine reported the Huttons as separated under a single word, “separated. ” It noted that Hutton was the board chairman of General Foods, and it added one line of its own. “Reported settlement, $5 million.

” Time called it reported, and it was never more than that. The divorce followed in September of 1935, though one account, the history kept by the yacht’s later owners, places it in August. Time, looking back years later, gave the ground plainly. She divorced him on grounds of adultery.

After fifteen years, the marriage was over, and it was the one that hurt. Her biographer wrote that the divorce was a blow to Marjorie’s pride, from which she would never fully recover. Then the consequences began to arrive quickly, one after another. In December of 1935, Hutton resigned as chairman of the board of General Foods.

He had held the chair for about twelve years. He had held it because he was married to the woman who owned the company. When the marriage ended, so did the chairmanship. Mar-a-Lago stayed with her.

So did Topridge, the triplex on Fifth Avenue, and the company whose chair he had filled for her. The company had never been his. In February of 1936, five months after the divorce, Hutton married again. He was sixty.

His new wife, Dorothy Diemer Metzger, was twenty-eight. One account says the two had met through Marjorie’s own daughter, Adelaide. Edward Hutton lived another twenty-six years. He died on July 11th, 1962, at his home on Long Island, a house called Huttfield in Westbury.

He was eighty-six. His obituary in The New York Times called him the former chairman of the General Foods Corporation, which was true, and which would have been impossible without her. She was forty-eight. The one husband who had been something like her equal was gone, and he had gone to a woman twenty years younger.

What she did next was very fast, and to anyone watching it might have looked like a woman running from one marriage into another. Within three months of the divorce, she had married a third husband. And within months, for the first time in her life, she would take a seat at her own company’s table in her own name. On December 15th, 1935, she married again in her own Manhattan apartment at a wedding Time priced at one hundred thousand dollars.

The magazine’s notice of the marriage was a single line, and it carried her whole history in it. It listed the bride as Mrs. Marjorie Post Close Hutton. Three surnames, one after another, each from a different man, the first her father’s.

The groom was listed as Joseph Edward Davies of Washington. She was forty-eight. He was fifty-nine. Joseph Davies was a Washington lawyer, born on November 29th, 1876, in Watertown, Wisconsin, to a family of Welsh descent.

He had been chairman of the Federal Trade Commission. He had been married before to a woman named Emlyn Knight since 1902. He was a man of Franklin Roosevelt’s Washington, the president his new wife admired and her last husband despised. The honeymoon was spent at sea aboard the great sailing yacht.

It no longer carried the name it was launched under. In 1935, with the new marriage, Hussar became Sea Cloud. The honeymoon was evidently a long one. When the groom’s daughter married Senator Tydings that winter, her father was not there.

Time noted, dryly, that he had missed the wedding while honeymooning aboard the yacht of his second wife. But the real event of those months was not the wedding at all. It happened four months later at the offices of General Foods. For twenty-two years, since her father’s death in 1914, she had owned his company and had not sat on its board in her own name.

First, Edward Close had represented her. Then Edward Hutton had sat at the head of the table. Hutton had resigned as chairman in December of 1935. And on April 9th, 1936, the woman who owned the largest food company in America took her seat in its boardroom as a director.

The chronology kept at Hillwood, drawn from her family’s own papers, records the moment in one plain sentence. On April 9th, 1936, Marjorie Post Davies joins the General Foods Board of Directors. For the first time, she represents her own interests on the board instead of being represented by her husband or other agent. For the first time.

She was forty-nine years old. Her father had been dead for almost twenty-two years, and she had waited every one of them. The order of those months matters. In September of 1935, her second marriage ended.

In December, her second husband gave up the chair of her company, and she married her third. In February of 1936, her second husband married a woman of twenty-eight. And in April, while the newspapers were still writing about Hutton’s young bride, the woman he had left took his place at the table as herself. It took a divorce to get her there.

She is widely described as the first woman ever to sit on the General Foods Board. She would stay there until 1958, and then remain a director emeritus until the day she died. Even on the day she finally represented herself, the record had her wearing a husband’s name. She had been fighting toward that table in one way or another since she was a girl at her father’s board meetings.

In 1917, she had stood in the White House with the suffragists to ask the president for the vote. Now, almost twenty years later, she had a vote of her own in the room where her father’s company was run. No husband could cast it for her. No husband could leave and take it with him.

The new husband had plans of his own. In November of 1936, President Roosevelt appointed Joseph Davies ambassador to the Soviet Union. For his wife, it meant Moscow, the capital of Joseph Stalin in the years of the show trials. She went, and she went in style.

She lived in Moscow as she lived everywhere else, and from early 1937 the great yacht was at Leningrad in Soviet waters at her service. She had also by then given her husband a gift of a kind only she could give. At Camp Topridge in 1935, she had commissioned a Russian-style dacha on the grounds, a present for Joseph Davies. A wedding gesture of the kind she understood.

A building. Spaso House, the American residence in Moscow, filled with orchids and French porcelain while the government outside its windows sold off an empire’s treasures. The Davises arrived in Moscow in 1937. They stayed until June of 1938.

In those months, Spaso House became the scene of ambassadorial dinners with French and Russian porcelain on the table and orchids among the plates. Back home, she served formal dinners on vermeil plates, gilded silver, that had once belonged to the Emperor Franz Josef of Austria. She had always liked to eat from an emperor’s table. In Moscow, she was about to fill her houses with an emperor’s things.

Outside, in the city, the government was liquidating a dynasty. The Soviet state had confiscated the treasures of the Romanovs, the aristocracy, and the Orthodox Church. By the late 1930s, Stalin’s government was selling those treasures for hard currency through state shops to anyone with foreign money to spend. The art historian Allison Hilton put it in a single sentence.

She was in Moscow at just the right time when Stalin and his government were selling objects for hard currency to build up armaments. She bought. About a fifth of her Russian collection came directly out of the Soviet Union. The rest she gathered over decades of auctions until it became the largest collection of Russian Imperial art outside Russia.

There were icons, one of the finest small collections of them in America. There was porcelain from the services of Catherine the Great. And she never stopped. As late as 1967, she paid $330,000 for a single Fabergé chalice set with 5,499 diamonds.

The scale of what she brought together is easier to feel in numbers than in adjectives. About twenty percent of it bought inside the Soviet Union. Nearly ninety pieces by Fabergé. Two of the Imperial Easter eggs, made in 1896 and 1914.

About twenty-five silver chalices. And one object above all, the diamond crown worn by the last Tsarina Alexandra at her wedding to Nicholas II in 1894, set with about 1,535 old mine diamonds. The purchases have been read two ways ever since. The museums tell it as a rescue, a collector saving great art from a regime that was selling it off for money.

The other reading is harder. An American fortune bought cheaply and legally the confiscated treasures of a murdered dynasty from the very government that had murdered it. Both readings fit the facts. The second egg was the Twelve Monogram egg, made in 1896 and set with the diamond monograms of the Tsar Alexander III and his widow, Maria Feodorovna.

It was a memorial, a gift from a son to his mother after his father’s death. The other, the rose pink Catherine the Great egg, she already owned. It had been Eleanor’s birthday present in the last years of the Hutton marriage. A wedding crown, worn by an Empress who would be shot with her husband and children in a cellar twenty-four years after her wedding, now belonged to a woman on her third marriage.

At Hillwood today, the crown’s record reads simply, bequest of Marjorie Merriweather Post, 1973. There was another irony, closer to home. Her husband admired the regime that was selling her these things. Joseph Davies came home and wrote a book called Mission to Moscow, published in 1941, which defended Stalin and the Moscow show trials.

Warner Brothers turned it into a film in 1943. It sold well. In later years, it became an embarrassment. His wife, by one account, was appalled by the Soviet police state, even as her husband praised it, and she bought the treasures it had seized.

The two of them came home from Moscow carrying very different things. His posting there had lasted about eighteen months. What she brought out of it would fill the rooms of a museum for the rest of the century and beyond. From Moscow, they went to Brussels, where he served as ambassador to Belgium from 1938 to 1939.

Then they came back to Washington. In 1940, they bought an estate there called The Causeway, about twenty acres, and Davies renamed it Tregaron, after the town in Wales his family had come from. It was his house in a way none of her houses had been any husband’s. He named it.

He would die in it. The yacht had a war of its own. In 1942, the government took over Sea Cloud for the price of one dollar. She served as a weather ship and then as a navy ship, and she became the first racially integrated warship in the United States military since the Civil War.

Among her crew was Jacob Lawrence, who became a celebrated American painter. The marriage settled into Washington. He was the former ambassador and the author. She was the hostess, the collector, the director of General Foods.

For a time, the arrangement seems to have suited both of them. It did not stay that way. Her biographer portrays Davies, as the years went on, as increasingly possessive, controlling, and jealous. The man of fifty-nine was harder to live with in his seventies.

She had spent her first marriage with a man who disapproved of her, and her second with a man who deceived her. Her third husband, it seemed, wanted to supervise her, and she was, by then, the one woman in America least suited to being supervised. There was another strain, quieter than jealousy and harder to argue with. Davies was growing old and growing ill.

His wife was a lifelong Christian Scientist. Her biographer writes that she struggled with human fragility, and that she could not stay with a partner who was, in the biographer’s words, on his way down. The marriage lasted twenty years, longer than any of the others. In the winter of 1955, she packed for Idaho.

In January of 1955, she went west to Sun Valley, Idaho, and stayed long enough to end twenty years of marriage. Idaho, like Nevada, was a state where a divorce could be had after a short stay. The case came before an Idaho court. Joseph Davies put up no defense.

Time covered it under a heading that played on his famous book. It called the story Mission to Sun Valley, and it printed something rare in her life, her own words about a husband. Davies, she said, had “a funny lack of basic straight thinking that was awfully hard to live with. ” By her account, he had accused her of flirting with other men, among them the industrialist Henry Kaiser.

The decree was granted. She took back her maiden name. She moved into the Ambassador Hotel in New York. The man got the house.

Davies kept Tregaron, the estate he had named. And some accounts say she gave it to him in the settlement. Either way, the money ran from her side to his as it always did. It was the longest of her marriages, and it ended with the least drama of any of them.

A quiet decree in a mountain town, an absent husband, and a sentence in a magazine about straight thinking. There were no traps this time, no talcum powder, no maid. There was only a man growing old and angry, and a woman who would not watch it happen. 1955 was a year of endings and beginnings all at once.

In February, by one record, Edward Close, her first husband, died in Greenwich. In the same year, she let Sea Cloud go to the Dominican dictator Rafael Trujillo. And in the same year, she bought a house of her own in Washington. It was an estate called Arbremont on twenty-five acres near Rock Creek Park, and she paid $651,279.

50 for it. She renamed it Hillwood. She gutted it and rebuilt it over about two years. She had already decided by her own plan that her collection would one day become a museum, and she built Hillwood from the start to be both a home and a place the public would someday walk through.

It was a great house bought by a woman on her own. Three years later, on May 9th, 1958, Joseph Davies died at Tregaron. He was buried in Washington National Cathedral. He was eighty-one.

It was forty-four years to the day since her father’s death in Santa Barbara. The records simply placed the two dates side by side. Six weeks later, she was married again. His name was Herbert Arthur May.

He was a businessman from Pittsburgh, a patron of the opera and the ballet, and a former master of foxhounds at the Rolling Rock Club in Ligonier, Pennsylvania. He was a widower with grown children. Of all her husbands, he had the least money, and she set up a trust fund for him. It was the clearest form the old reversal ever took.

Her first husband had been given a house by her father. Her second had been given a chairmanship by her marriage. Her third had kept the estate. Her fourth was given an income of his own, a husband provided for by his bride.

They married on June 18th, 1958, at her daughter Adelaide’s estate in Maryland, with the reception at Hillwood. The bride was seventy-one. That same year, she retired from the board of General Foods after twenty-two years at the table she had waited twenty-two years to reach. By her own words, she was happy.

On the engagement, she wired a granddaughter that she was walking on fluffy pink clouds. And when her new husband took her up in a private plane, she turned to him in the air with a request. “Herb, I want one. ” He began to explain what it would cost.

She stopped him. “I didn’t ask how much it costs. I want one. ” She bought a Vickers Viscount, a turboprop airliner, and named it the Merriweather.

What follows comes from her biographer, and it has never been confirmed by a court record. It should be heard with that in mind. Before the wedding, she had been warned that Herbert May was homosexual. Some of the warnings came from her own family, including her daughter Dina.

She dismissed them as gossip. On the honeymoon, by her biographer’s account, May brought along a male secretary. And then, at some point in the marriage, a set of photographs reached her desk. They showed her husband naked with younger men beside the pool at Mar-a-Lago, the house Edward Hutton had once joked about.

A blackmail demand followed. The record does not say whether anything was ever paid. You can buy an airplane on a whim at seventy-one and refuse to hear the price. You can own the largest collection of its kind outside Russia and a company that feeds the country.

And you can still be the last person in your family to know what is happening beside your own pool. Her biographer preserved the exchange that followed when the truth was out and she learned who else had known. “You mean, you didn’t know? ” an incredulous Dina asked her mother.

“Of course I didn’t,” Marjorie retorted. And then, with equal astonishment, “You mean, you did? ”

She divorced him. The decree came in May of 1964, and the divorce papers, whatever they said, most likely used a conventional legal ground, not the photographs.

She was seventy-seven. She took back her own name, Marjorie Merriweather Post, the name she had been born with and the one her father had given her. Even now, there was a last act of the marriage, and it was hers. When Herbert May later suffered a stroke, she paid his medical bills, by her biographer’s account, and gave him an apartment in Fort Lauderdale.

She had left him, and she still looked after him. She never married again. She had nine years left, and she spent them deciding, with her usual precision, what would remain when she was gone. In 1967, Time reported that her friends insisted she did not plan to marry again.

The magazine ran its profile under the headline Mumsie the Magnificent. She was seventy-nine, and she had been divorced for three years. The friends were right. There would be no fifth husband.

The same profile described Mar-a-Lago as a 115-room Spanish cottage, which would have pleased Edward Hutton, and noted that Hillwood had already been promised to the Smithsonian. She was arranging the future even then. There is a story preserved by her biographer that says more about the four marriages than any decree. Clarence Francis, known as Claire, was chairman of General Foods.

One day, he put the question to her directly. “Marjorie, you could run General Motors. You could run US Steel. You’re the smartest woman I know.

But why do you have so much trouble with husbands? ” She shrugged. “Claire, I honestly don’t know. Ain’t it hell?

” It is the most honest thing she ever said about the subject and the funniest. And it does not answer the question at all. She took the compliment and declined the question. A woman who had seen the future in a frozen goose had no sentence for this.

The four marriages laid end to end make a strange shape. Edward Close, about fourteen years. Edward Hutton, about fifteen. Joseph Davies, about twenty.

Herbert May, about six. Well over half a century of her life had been spent married to four very different men. By the time of that profile, three of them were dead. Close in 1955 by one record.

Davies in 1958. Hutton in 1962. The fourth, Herbert May, would be looked after in an apartment in Fort Lauderdale that she paid for. What she had instead of a husband was a household, and she ran it like a ship.

Across all her properties, the Washington Post reported, she employed about three hundred people, full-time and part-time. She paid them, by that account, up to thirty-five percent above the going wage. At Hillwood alone, there were something like sixteen to eighteen people in domestic service and six more on security. When a formal dinner was laid, the butlers set the table with yardsticks, measuring the distance of each piece to the inch.

In 1967, according to Time, she still held about seven percent of the stock of General Foods, and it was worth 128 million dollars. Her father had once spent a million dollars a year to tell the country about Postum. His daughter’s shares in the company that grew from it were now worth more than a hundred times that. She gave a great deal of it away.

She gave more than a million dollars to the National Symphony and paid for free concerts for school children, a series called Music for Young America. The concert pavilion called Merriweather Post Pavilion is named for her. She gave one hundred thousand dollars toward what would become the Kennedy Center. In 1962, she gave the Smithsonian the Napoleon diamond necklace, made in 1811, which she had bought from Harry Winston.

She had a phrase for all of it. “There are others better off than I am. The only difference is I do more with mine. ” She put it another way too, when people asked what she did with so much money.

“I move it around and put it to work. ” The list of where it went is long. The Red Cross, the Salvation Army, the Boy Scouts, a college on Long Island built on the grounds of her old estate there and named C. W.

Post College after her father. Four decades after the hospital at Savenay, France had made her a commander of the Legion of Honor in 1957. Not one of her husbands appears anywhere in that list. The giving was hers alone, the way the board seat had finally been hers alone.

And she danced. By the 1950s, she had taken up square dancing, and she made it the fashion of Palm Beach. A Miami society column in 1956 announced that Palm Beach had a new rage, square dancing, and that Mrs. Marjorie Merriweather Post was responsible for the vogue.

She held square dances at Mar-a-Lago and at Topridge, and she was still leading the dancing at her eighty-third birthday party. Her hearing was failing. At her parties, a butler stood at her side and announced each guest as they arrived so that she could greet every one of them by name. It was the kind of arrangement she was best at, a small, precise system that solved a problem before anyone noticed there was one.

She left a card for her house guests with instructions that are almost a portrait of the woman. “Do whatever you want, regardless of the planned activities offered. And if there is anything you want and you don’t ask for it, it’s your own fault. ” Her own motto was shorter.

She gave it to Time in that same profile. “Be useful. Be generous. Keep busy.

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She died at Hillwood on September 12, 1973, of cardiac failure after a long illness, at eighty-six. She had outlived three of her husbands. She had outlived her father by almost sixty years, and she had kept to the end nearly everything he had left her and almost everything she had built. Now, the will took over, and the will, like the woman who wrote it, was precise.

It was the last of her long negotiations, and the only one with no husband anywhere in the room. Most of her estate, somewhere between two hundred and two hundred and fifty million dollars, went to her three daughters. About 117 million of it to the family. The great jewels, the Napoleon diamond necklace among them, were already at the Smithsonian or bound for it.

The necklace alone, about 263 carats, along with a pair of diamond earrings once said to have belonged to Marie Antoinette. And the two great houses were meant for the nation. There were endowments too, one hundred thousand dollars each to four institutions. And there were the smaller treasures of the Smithsonian gift, the Marie Louise Diadem and the Maximilian emerald ring.

Mar-a-Lago was the larger gift. She had long intended it as a winter retreat for American presidents, a winter White House, and for visiting heads of state. The process had begun in her lifetime. She lived to see the government say yes.

The federal government designated it a national historic site in January of 1969 and took it over in October of 1972. It never became the retreat she intended. The house was expensive to run, and the government judged it too costly to keep. In 1980, it was named a national historic landmark.

And in the same year, on December 23rd, 1980, Congress abolished the historic site and returned the estate to the Post Foundation. The gift had been accepted and then given back. In 1985, by most accounts, though one says 1986, the foundation sold Mar-a-Lago to Donald Trump. The recorded price was five million dollars, with about three million more for the furnishings.

One account puts the whole at a reported eight million. The house that had taken about six hundred workers and four years to build at a cost most often given as seven million dollars in the money of the 1920s sold for about the same sum in the money of the 1980s. It still stands on its seventeen acres between the ocean and the lake. Hillwood followed a stranger road.

She had decided by 1952 that her collection would become a museum. And in 1968, she offered the Washington estate to the Smithsonian along with an endowment of ten million dollars. “The collection should belong to the country,” she said in 1970. In the middle of the 1970s, the Smithsonian looked at the house, the gardens, and the money, and decided the ten million dollars was not enough.

Hillwood, too, went back to the Post Foundation. This time, the family did what the government would not. In 1977, her eldest daughter, Adelaide, the girl born in 1908, opened the house to visitors by written appointment four days a week. It has been open ever since as Hillwood Estate, Museum, and Gardens.

The two estates laid side by side tell the whole after story in figures. At Hillwood, twenty-five acres, thirteen of them formal gardens, a library of about 38,000 items, an endowment of ten million dollars judged too small in the 1970s and grown by now to about two hundred million. In Palm Beach, seventeen acres designated for the nation in 1969 and handed back in 1980, then sold for a recorded five million dollars plus three for the furniture. And part of the money from that sale went, in the end, into the endowment of the other house.

So the palace Edward Hutton had joked about helped to pay for the museum she bought in the year she left Joseph Davies. The house of the second marriage helped hold up the house she bought when the third one ended. The other houses went their own ways. Camp Topridge went to the state of New York, which came to see it as an albatross.

And in 1985, the state auctioned it for $911,000. The man who bought it went bankrupt. And in 1994, the camp passed to another private owner. The butlers for every cabin, the funicular up the ridge, the square dances in the great room, all of it became a private retreat again with nobody in it who had known her.

Sea Cloud still sails as a cruise ship carrying paying passengers. Inside Hillwood, in the rooms she planned for strangers, the Russian collection is on display, the largest of its kind outside Russia. The tsarina’s wedding crown is there, and so is the rose pink egg her daughter Eleanor bought for her birthday in 1931, the Catherine the Great egg. But the surprise that once sat inside it, the tiny sedan chair carrying the figure of the empress, has long been lost.

The shell survived. The thing it was made to hold did not. Of everything she built, the houses were the part the public could walk into. The third thing that outlasted her husbands was never a house at all, and nobody could walk into it.

But almost everybody in America had it in a kitchen cupboard. In September of 1985, twelve years after her death, Philip Morris bought General Foods for about 5. 6 billion dollars. One newspaper put the total cost at $5.

75 billion at $120 a share. Three years later, Philip Morris bought Kraft. And in 1989, the two companies were joined as Kraft General Foods. In 2008, the cereal business her father had started split away from Kraft and merged with another company, Ralcorp.

In 2012, it was spun off on its own as a public company called Post Holdings. The arithmetic runs across more than a century. A grain drink in a barn in 1895. A company of about ten million dollars a decade later.

About twenty million dollars inherited by a daughter of twenty-seven in 1914. The largest food company in America by 1929. A seven percent stake worth 128 million dollars in 1967. More than five billion dollars from Philip Morris in 1985.

And her father’s name, Post, still on cereal boxes in the twenty-first century. The board seat she waited twenty-two years for and held for twenty-two more sits in the middle of that arithmetic. Four husbands came and went across those years, and not one of them appears in it. The idea she had tasted near Gloucester outlived all of it.

Frozen food, the business her second husband resisted for three years, went on to remake the American kitchen. The men went on, and then they went. Edward Close married again, became the grandfather of an actress, and died, by one record, in Greenwich in 1955. Edward Hutton married a woman of twenty-eight and died on Long Island in 1962.

Joseph Davies kept Tregaron and died in it in 1958. Herbert May, after his stroke, was given an apartment she paid for. Every one of them had left her life long before he left his own. Her daughters outlived her by decades.

Adelaide died in 1998, Eleanor in 2006, and Dina Merrill, the daughter of the marriage that hurt most, in 2017. So, here is the question her life leaves behind. How does a woman keep a company for nearly sixty years, a palace for nearly fifty, a collection for four decades, and a husband at the most for twenty? The women of her world were raised to believe that a good marriage was the thing that lasted, and that a fortune was something a husband looked after.

Her life ran exactly the other way. The fortune lasted in her own hands. The marriages were the one part of her life she could never plan and never keep. Part of the answer is in the money.

In every marriage, she was the fortune, and every husband arrived in her world rather than she in his. The first was given a house by her father. The second was given a chairmanship by her marriage. The third was given an estate.

The fourth was given an income. Each of them, in a different way, failed to stand level with what she was. Part of it is in the era. For twenty-two years, the rules said a man must sit at her company’s table in her place, and the man who sat there was always her husband.

Her own seat came only after a divorce. And part of it, perhaps, was in her. Her father had said she could organize the grains of sand, the things that answered to order, she kept. The things that did not, she lost.

She lost the father who taught her in a house in Santa Barbara at twenty-seven. She lost the first husband to Greenwich and the war, and the second to a maid and a bell on a thread. She lost the third to Idaho and the fourth to a photograph on a desk. She did not lose her nerve.

She did not lose her company. She did not lose her houses or her collection or the habit of order that her father named in her when she was a girl. What she lost were the men, every one, and what she kept was everything she had built for strangers. Her biographer preserved one more sentence of hers, with the same shrug in it that she gave to Clarence Francis.

“I had many beautiful things, but choosing a husband, I never had much luck. ” In the rose garden at Hillwood, there is a monument of pink granite, an obelisk topped with an urn of deep purple porphyry. Her ashes lie beneath it. They were placed there in November of 1974, more than a year after her death, in a monument designed by Theodore Westendorff Dominick and cut from Salisbury pink granite.

For years, on her birthday, a man who had worked for her named Gus Modig came and laid flowers there, and the museum keeps the custom still. The stone carries two dates, March 15th, 1887, and September 12th, 1973. It carries a coat of arms and a motto in Latin, in me mea spes omnis, all my hope rests in myself. She had taken back her own name in May of 1964, after the fourth husband was gone, and it is the name on everything that lasted.

Marjorie Merriweather Post. Her father’s name on the company and on the cereal box, and on the woman who outlasted every man who ever gave her his.