In the spring of 1989, somebody inside Buckingham Palace opened the Princess Royal’s own papers and took out the private letters a serving naval officer had written to her. Not one word of them was ever printed. By every account, the newspaper that received them handed them to Scotland Yard. The palace confirmed who had written them and said nothing else.

Detectives investigated, and then a chief superintendent went to see her and admitted they could not tell her who had done it. Four months later, her marriage of fifteen years was over, and the secret her husband was keeping on the other side of the world was worse than anything in those letters. She said nothing about any of it. Not then, not at the divorce, not once in the thirty-seven years since.
She was born third in line to the throne, and twice in her childhood a brother arrived and moved her further from it. Anne Elizabeth Alice Louise was born at Clarence House on the 15th of August, 1950, at ten minutes to twelve in the morning. Her grandfather was still king. Her mother was still Princess Elizabeth, Duchess of Edinburgh, a young woman with a naval husband and a small son, living the last ordinary years she would ever have.
Anne was the second child and the only daughter. For the first eighteen months of her life, she was styled Her Royal Highness Princess Anne of Edinburgh, a title that placed her in the family without placing her at its center. At birth she stood third behind her mother and her elder brother. Her grandfather died in February 1952.
Her mother became queen, and that was as close to the throne as Anne would ever come. The reason lay in a rule older than the house she was born in. Under male-preference primogeniture, the crown passed to sons before daughters regardless of who had been born first. It did not matter that Anne had arrived before her younger brothers.
It mattered only that they were boys. So on the 19th of February 1960, when Prince Andrew was born, Anne moved down. And on the 10th of March 1964, when Prince Edward was born, she moved down again. She was thirteen years old, and for the second time in four years an infant had displaced her in the order of the state.
There is no record of her complaining about it. There is no record of anyone asking her whether she minded, and there is no interview anywhere, at any age, in which she was invited to say how it felt to be moved down the order of the British state by an infant in a cot. The question was never put, and she never raised it. This is the first thing to understand about the woman at the center of this story.
From the beginning, the most consequential facts about her life were decided by documents she had no hand in writing, and her response was always the same. She got on with it. She was taught at home first by a governess named Catherine Peebles. Then in 1963 she was sent to Benenden School in Kent.
She left in 1968 with six Ordinary Level certificates and two Advanced. In 1969, at eighteen, she began official public duties. The rule that had moved her down twice was eventually abolished. Not for her.
In October 2011 the Perth Agreement settled that male preference in the royal succession would end, and the Succession to the Crown Act came into force on the 26th of March 2015. Its first section is one sentence long, and the whole of its meaning sits in five words: the gender of a person born after the 28th of October 2011 no longer gives that person precedence over any other. Born after 2011. Anne was born in 1950.
Andrew was born in 1960 and Edward in 1964. So they, too, fall outside it, and their place ahead of their elder sister was left exactly as it was. The first person the change actually helped was Princess Charlotte, born in 2015, who kept her position when her younger brother arrived three years later. Anne is now eighteenth in line to the throne.
Had the law been written to look backwards as well as forwards, she would stand immediately behind her eldest brother’s children and ahead of both her younger brothers and everyone descended from them. It is the first rule in her life that was quietly dismantled after the cost of it had already been paid, and it would not be the last. The next one involved a Catholic cavalry officer at Royal Ascot, and it arrived in the weeks before her twentieth birthday. In June 1970 she was nineteen years old, and the man courting her at Royal Ascot had just left another woman to do it.
Andrew Henry Parker Bowles was thirty. He was the son of Derek Parker Bowles of Donnington Castle House in Berkshire and of Anne de Trafford, whose father was a baronet and racehorse owner, Sir Humphrey de Trafford, and whose family had held to the Roman Catholic faith through the centuries when holding to it in England cost money, office, and sometimes liberty. Andrew was raised a Catholic and remained one. His father was a friend of the Queen Mother, which is the documented reason he was in a position to court the Queen’s daughter at all.
He was already inside the circle rather than a stranger who caught her eye at the races. He was also that summer an adjutant of the Blues and Royals stationed in London. He had been commissioned into the Royal Horse Guards ten years earlier, in 1960, and served as an aide to the Governor-General of New Zealand in the middle of the decade. He had the posting, the regiment, the family, the manners, and the horses.
On paper, he was the most suitable man in the country. On paper, he was also impossible. The Act of Settlement of 171, sitting on top of the Bill of Rights of 1689, laid down that any person in the line of succession who married a Roman Catholic was excluded from that line. Read the sentence carefully, because almost everybody gets it the wrong way round.
The penalty did not fall on the Catholic. It fell on the royal. There was no requirement that Andrew Parker Bowles renounce anything. The requirement was that Anne, fourth in line to the throne of the United Kingdom, accept being removed from the succession as the price of the marriage.
She would additionally have needed her mother’s formal consent under the Royal Marriages Act of 1772, which at that time bound every descendant of George II. They began seeing each other in June 1970, weeks before her twentieth birthday. And here the record has to be handled with care, because it has been embroidered for fifty years. What is documented is thin and specific.
They dated. He had ended a relationship with a young woman named Camilla Shand in order to do it. How long it lasted is genuinely contested, described in one account as brief and in another as running over a few years, and there is no honest way to choose between them. The idea that the relationship failed because of his religion is the inference of a biographer, not a statement by either of the people involved.
There was no engagement. There was no proposal on the record. There was no palace statement, no intervention by the Queen or the Queen Mother that any source can point to, and no evidence at all that Anne was ever told she could not continue. What can be said is that a rule written in 171 stood between a young woman and a man she was seeing, and that everybody involved knew it was there.
That rule is gone now. Section Two of the same act that failed to help her in 2015 removed the disqualification arising from marriage to a Roman Catholic, and it did something the gender provision refused to do. It looked backwards. Its second subsection applies the change to marriages that took place before the act came into force, provided the person concerned was still alive.
Anyone who had lost their place in the succession by marrying a Catholic and was living in March 2015 was restored to it. So the bar that shadowed a courtship in 1970 was struck out retrospectively, and the bar that pushed her behind her brothers was struck out only for children not yet born. One of them was undone in her lifetime, and the other never will be. A Roman Catholic still cannot inherit the throne.
That part was left alone. Andrew Parker Bowles married Camilla Shand three years later. Anne married somebody else four months after that. The two of them have remained on cordial terms for more than fifty years and are still photographed together at race meetings, which is its own kind of answer to the question of how serious it ever was.
In 1971 she beat the best riders in Europe at Burghley, and the country decided it liked her. She was twenty-one. The horse was called Doublet and had been bred by her mother. The event was the European Eventing Championships, held that year in the park at Burghley House in Lincolnshire, and Anne won the individual gold medal.
The horse press, which does not hand out compliments to amateurs, reported that she had not merely beaten the best in Europe but trounced them. One magazine called it a fairy-story ending. She had finished fifth at Badminton earlier the same year, which meant the gold was not a fluke of one afternoon. The readers of a listings magazine voted her Sports Personality of the Year, the first member of the royal family ever to win it.
She finished ahead of the footballer George Best and the rugby union player Barry John in a public vote. The trophy was handed to her at the BBC Television Theatre in Shepherd’s Bush by Henry Cooper. When the presenter, David Coleman, asked her the secret of her success, she answered, “Actually, it is late at night. ” That reply is the whole woman in one line.
Deflect, undercut, refuse the pedestal, get off the stage. The man she would marry had been in her life since 1968, when they met at a party for horse enthusiasts. Mark Anthony Peter Phillips was born on the 22nd of September 1948 in Gloucestershire, and his family was the sort the British press could not resist describing. His father, Major Peter Phillips, had won the Military Cross with the 1st King’s Dragoon Guards in Italy in the last year of the war, and the citation is in the official Gazette of the 28th of June 1945.
He then went into business, joining the firm of Wall and Sons as its pig buyer and rising to the board. An American magazine reporting the engagement in June 1973 put it plainly: his father was a director of a large produce firm that specialized in pork sausages and ice cream. The family lived in a sixteenth-century house of Cotswold stone in the Wiltshire village of Great Somerford. Mark went to Marlborough, then to Sandhurst, and was commissioned into the 1st Queen’s Dragoon Guards in July 1969, the same regiment his father had served in a generation earlier under its older name.
He was an eventer of the first rank in his own right. Team gold at the Munich Olympics in 1972 on a horse called Great Ovation. World team title in 1970. European team title in 1971.
Four wins at Badminton, in 1971, 1972, 1974, and 1981. The engagement was announced on the 29th of May 1973. The ring was a sapphire and diamond cluster. Then the calendar did something no scriptwriter would dare invent.
On the 4th of July 1973, Andrew Parker Bowles married Camilla Shand at the Guards Chapel in Wellington Barracks in a Catholic ceremony before some eight hundred guests. Four months and ten days later, on the 14th of November, Anne married Mark Phillips at Westminster Abbey. The Archbishop of Canterbury officiated. There were 1,500 guests, including the royal houses of Monaco, the Netherlands, Norway, Spain, Yugoslavia, and Greece.
She wore a high-necked Tudor-style gown by Maureen Baker and the Queen Mary Fringe tiara. The date was also her elder brother’s twenty-fifth birthday. The honeymoon was aboard the royal yacht. One detail from that November is easy to skip and turns out to matter for the next fifty years.
Phillips was offered an earldom, the customary courtesy for an untitled man marrying a princess. The couple turned it down because he took no peerage. There was no courtesy title for their children to inherit, and because they descended from a princess rather than a prince, no royal style attached to them either. Their son would be the first legitimate grandchild of a reigning British monarch in modern times to be born without a title of any kind.
Anne explained the thinking almost half a century later, in the only sentence she has ever offered on it. “Most people would argue that there are downsides to having titles,” she said. “So that was probably the right thing to do. ”
At the end of 1973 she was twenty-three years old, a European champion, the most popular sportswoman in Britain, and seven weeks married.
She had four months left before a man with a revolver and a typed letter would be waiting on The Mall. At about eight in the evening on the 20th of March 1974, a white Ford Escort swerved in front of her car and stopped it. The official account of what followed is not a press reconstruction. It is a gallantry citation printed in the London Gazette on the 27th of September that year, and it is one of the coldest documents in the modern royal record.
It begins with a sentence of almost comic understatement: at about eight in the evening on the 20th of March 1974, Her Royal Highness the Princess Anne and Captain Mark Phillips were returning to Buckingham Palace from an official engagement. The engagement was reported to have been a screening of a film made for Riding for the Disabled. The car was a maroon Austin Princess limousine, and it is worth correcting the legend here, because for fifty years the story has been told with a Rolls-Royce in it, and there was no Rolls-Royce. Inside were five people.
Anne, twenty-three years old. Her husband of four months. The chauffeur, Alexander Callender. Her lady-in-waiting, Rowena Brassey.
And in the front passenger seat, Inspector James Beaton of the Metropolitan Police, her personal protection officer, who was that evening the entire protection arrangement. One man. No second officer. No car behind.
The escort came across their path at the junction of The Mall with Marlborough Road, a few hundred yards from the palace gates, and Callender braked. He got out to see what the trouble was. The citation records what happened with the flatness of a form filled in by somebody who has read a hundred of them. As Inspector Beaton approached, the man pointed a revolver at him and fired, wounding him in the shoulder.
Despite his wound, the inspector drew his pistol and fired at the man, but the shot missed. He was unable to fire again, as his gun jammed. That is the sentence the rest of British royal protection was built on. A service pistol failed at the window of a royal car with a gunman on the other side of it.
Beaton moved round to the nearside of the vehicle, trying to clear the stoppage, and the gunman told him to drop the weapon or he would shoot the Princess. The lady-in-waiting got out through the rear nearside door. Beaton climbed in through the same door and leaned across to shield Anne with his body, and the gunman fired through the window. The glass shattered.
Beaton was wounded in the right hand by the bullet and by the flying glass. Then, in the words of the citation, the man opened the door and fired at the officer again, wounding him in the stomach. The inspector fell from the offside door and collapsed unconscious at the gunman’s feet. Three bullets in one man at the window of a stationary car, in front of witnesses.
Callender tried to get out. The gunman put the pistol to his head and told him not to move. He clung to the man’s arm anyway, until he was shot in the chest. A freelance journalist named Brian McConnell was passing in a taxi and heard the shots.
He got out, walked towards a man holding a revolver, and asked him, in the citation’s phrase, in a placatory manner to hand it over. He kept walking. The gunman took aim and shot him in the chest. A young constable, Michael Hills, twenty-two years old, was on duty at St James’s Palace and came down to the cars.
Before he reached them he called for assistance, and the citation records that call. He moved forward to take the gun and was shot in the stomach. The bullet lodged in his liver, and the citation notes, in a single line that says everything about the medicine of the period, that no attempt has been made to remove it. Four men shot, none of them armed except the one who could not fire.
Then a fifth man arrived. A driver named Ronald Russell, who described himself afterwards as a former heavyweight boxer of 6’4”, was driving down The Mall and stopped because he saw somebody trying to open the door of a stationary car. He described the moment later without any drama in it at all. He saw a hand on the forearm of a young woman in the back seat, and only then recognized whose daughter she was.
The citation is precise about what he did. Mr Russell ran up and punched him on the back of the head. The man immediately turned and fired at him and missed. Russell went for the wounded constable’s truncheon, heard more noise from the car, and came back to find the gunman still trying to drag the Princess out with one hand while pointing a gun at her with the other, threatening to shoot if she refused to come.
And then the last line of that passage, which is the image the whole story hangs from. Captain Phillips promptly pulled her back into the car, and Mr Russell punched the man on the face. Two punches. That was the security operation.
Ian Ball had rented a typewriter to write his ransom note, and it was addressed to her mother. He was twenty-six years old, an unemployed laborer from North London. He had been an outpatient at a London psychiatric hospital between 1967 and 1972, and he had a handful of petty burglary convictions. After his arrest he was diagnosed with schizophrenia, and that diagnosis governed everything that followed.
The preparation had run for years. He hired the car under a false name. He destroyed his passport. He telephoned Buckingham Palace to establish where the Princess would be and when.
He rented a typewriter rather than buy one, and he typed a letter to the Queen of the United Kingdom demanding money for the return of her only daughter. Reports of the sum vary between two million and three million pounds in five-pound notes, together with a free pardon and a flight to Switzerland, and one account has the money to be delivered by the Queen personally in twenty unlocked suitcases. Anne’s own recollection of what he said aloud at the car was simpler. He wanted her to come with him for a day or two because he wanted two million pounds.
In his pockets when they took him were more than three hundred pounds in ten-pound notes, a pair of handcuffs, and a quantity of Valium. He was arrested by a constable named Peter Edmonds, who saw a man running with a gun still in his hand and, in the citation’s wording, completely undeterred, charged him and knocked him to the ground. The honors came six months later, in a standalone gallantry supplement rather than a New Year or Birthday list, which is the state’s way of saying that this did not belong in a list with the knighthoods. James Beaton received the George Cross.
Michael Hills and Ronald Russell received the George Medal. Alexander Callender, Peter Edmonds, and Brian McConnell received the Queen’s Gallantry Medal, which had been instituted only earlier that year, making theirs among the first ever awarded. And a seventh man, a chauffeur from Gloucestershire named Glenmore Martin, who had driven his own car across the gunman’s to block the escape and had a pistol pushed into his ribs for it, received the Queen’s Commendation for Brave Conduct. Seven awards for ninety seconds of work.
The citation ends with a judgment, and the judgment includes her. “It is entirely due to their actions,” it reads, “as well as to the calmness, bravery, and presence of mind shown both by Princess Anne and by Captain Mark Phillips in circumstances of great peril, that the attack was unsuccessful. ”
The changes came fast and quietly. Beaton described the state of things beforehand with a bluntness that is startling from a man of his generation.
He had nothing. There was no backup vehicle. The training, he said, was non-existent. “But then again, nobody thought anything was going to happen.
” The Walthers, he said, were got rid of overnight. Single-officer protection ended. From then on, it was two. Royal cars were fitted with radios, which had been resisted until then on aesthetic grounds.
Four years later, the Metropolitan Police formed a dedicated royalty protection branch, and every arrangement that surrounds a British royal on a public road today descends from that one jammed pistol. Ball appeared before magistrates in April and at the Old Bailey in May. He pleaded guilty to attempted murder and attempted kidnapping and was detained without limit of time under the Mental Health Act and sent to Broadmoor. Which leaves the most famous three words ever attributed to a member of the British royal family, and an awkward fact about them.
“Not bloody likely. ” Everybody knows it. It has been printed thousands of times, sometimes with a tale attached about not having two million. And there is no contemporaneous transcript of the exchange anywhere.
The line reached the public through police and press accounts, and Anne has never once confirmed that she said it. What makes this genuinely interesting is that two people who were there remember something else. Ronald Russell told the BBC that she was “very, very together” and that she was telling the gunman to go away and not be such a silly man. Ball himself, half a century later, remembered her saying that he should just go away and nobody would think any more about it.
Her own account, given to the police at the time, has none of the swagger the famous line implies. She had kept saying she did not want to get out of the car and was not going to get out. She nearly lost her temper, and knew that if she did, she would hit him, and he would shoot her. On television she put it dryer still.
They had “a sort of discussion,” she said, about where or where not they were going to go. He had said she had to go with him, and she could not remember why. She said she did not think she wanted to go, and she was scrupulously polite because it seemed silly to be too rude at that stage. The dress she was wearing was reportedly torn down the back in the struggle.
Her husband held her by the waist while a man with a revolver pulled at her arm. And her only recorded joke about the whole affair was that this had been his most dangerous moment. The nation gave her a character that night. Fearless.
Unbothered. Faintly rude. Entirely unwilling to be handled. And on the one point that mattered most, what she had actually said to the man who shot four people to take her, she said nothing.
The Queen bought them a Georgian house on 500 acres, and within a few years her husband was teaching riding clinics on the other side of the world. Gatcombe Park sits in the Gloucestershire countryside between Minchinhampton and Avening, about ten miles from the house her elder brother would later occupy at Highgrove. It was built in the 1770s for a cloth merchant named Edward Sheppard and rebuilt around 1820 for the economist David Ricardo. In 1940 it was bought by the art collector Samuel Courtauld and passed to his son-in-law, Rab Butler, the former Home Secretary.
The Queen bought it from Butler in 1976 as a private home for her daughter and son-in-law. The price was never disclosed. It was believed to be somewhere between £500,000 and £750,000, a little over five million in today’s money. The estate ran to about 500 acres at first, enlarged by roughly 230 more when the neighboring Aston Farm was bought a year or two later, making a total of some 730 acres, 200 of them woodland.
The house had 32 rooms, though Phillips liked to point out that the count included every lavatory and large cupboard. They moved in during November 1977, ten days after their son Peter was born. Their daughter Zara followed in May 1981. Both children arrived without titles, and both grew up on a working farm rather than in a palace, which was the whole point of the arrangement.
From the outside, it was the most sensible marriage in the family. Two Olympic riders on a working estate, two children in Wellington boots, no courtiers, no scandal, and a horse trials that the public paid to attend on the lawn. In 1983, Mark Phillips traveled to New Zealand to teach a riding clinic in Auckland. Among the people who enrolled was an art teacher named Heather Tonkin, who said later that she had been taken with what she called his dashing cavalry style.
They met again in November 1984 at a party for an Olympic rider. In August 1985, she gave birth to a daughter. Here the story has to slow down, because almost everything written about the years that followed is wrong, and the correct version is stranger than the wrong one. There was no dramatic paternity test.
There was no court order. What there was, from 1986 onwards, was money. Payments to Heather Tonkin made annually, reported at £13,300 a year by one wire report, and £13,000 by the same wire service on the same day, and at about £6,000 a year by a newspaper account decades later. And every one of them entered in the books not as maintenance for a child but as fees for a consultant on equestrian matters.
The money was routed through an associate rather than paid directly. The description was false, and the falseness was the arrangement’s entire architecture. The father’s name was never entered on the birth certificate. He declined to be named.
According to an account published decades later, his business agent went further and, in telephone calls that Heather Tonkin recorded on the advice of her lawyers, threatened legal action if any attempt were made to enter it. Two lines attributed to that agent survive. “If you want to cause a flap, everyone is just going to deny it. ” And: “When this thing hits the fan, your daughter’s life will be ruined.
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The money did buy the child something. According to reporting published many years later, the captain’s money paid the fees at the Diocesan School for Girls in Epsom, Auckland, where friends said she shone. She rode. She went to Pony Club and won the occasional ribbon.
Her grandmother, a distinguished doctor who had founded New Zealand’s Cot Death Association, said years later that the girl had really had a lovely middle-class upbringing, a phrase doing a great deal of quiet work. The girl was provided for, educated, and kept. Meanwhile, in Gloucestershire, the marriage was doing what unhappy marriages do in houses that size, which is to spread out. Phillips ran the horse trials on his wife’s lawn.
Anne rode, farmed, and worked. She had been president of Save the Children since 1970, when she was twenty years old, and she was in the field with it in Uganda, Bangladesh, Sierra Leone, South Africa, Mozambique, Ethiopia, and Bosnia. In 1986 she was made president of the international governing body of equestrian sport. In June 1987, her mother created her Princess Royal, the seventh woman in British history to hold a title given at a sovereign’s discretion to an eldest daughter.
By the end of the decade, according to reporting at the time, the couple were rarely seen in public together, and both had been linked with other people. So take the two households at the close of 1986. In Gloucestershire, 730 acres, 32 rooms, two children with no titles, a mother who was by then running a global children’s charity and had been president of it since she was twenty. On the other side of the world, a single mother, an art teacher’s salary, a small girl with a blank space on her birth certificate, and an annual payment that arrived under a false heading and could be stopped at any moment by a man who had never acknowledged her.
That was the position when a naval officer joined the Queen’s household and began writing to her daughter. In October 1986, a naval lieutenant commander with no title and no land joined the Queen’s household. Timothy James Hamilton Laurence had been born in Camberwell in South London on the 1st of March 1955. His father was a naval commander who had left the service and taken a job selling marine engines.
His mother was named Barbara Simons. He had an elder brother on his father’s side. The family descended from a Jewish merchant named Zachariah Levy, who had arrived in England from Venice in the late 1700s, and an ancestor had changed the surname from Levy to Laurence. There was nothing in any of it for a herald to work with.
No acres, no chapel, no baronets, no cousins in the Household Cavalry. He had been to a preparatory school, then to Sevenoaks, then to University College at Durham, where he read geography on a naval scholarship and edited the student newspaper. He was commissioned as a midshipman on the first day of 1973 and made lieutenant in 1977, ten months ahead of the normal schedule, which in the Royal Navy is the only compliment that counts. He served in shore establishments and in three ships, among them the Royal Yacht and a destroyer.
In October 1983 he was mentioned in dispatches for patrols off Northern Ireland in command of his own vessel. He was made acting sub-lieutenant in 1975 and lieutenant commander in March 1985. Nothing in the record suggests a man on the make. It suggests a competent officer being promoted slightly early at every stage by people who had watched him work.
He became equerry to Elizabeth II on the 11th of October 1986. An equerry is an officer seconded from the armed forces to attend the sovereign. It put a young man of thirty-one into the closest daily proximity to the royal family that any outsider ever gets. At the end of 1988 he was promoted commander.
In September of that year, Anne appointed him one of three advisers to the trust that handled her charitable work. That is the only reported professional connection between them before the story broke, and it is a small one. Against that, her reputation in the same month. On the 23rd of January 1989, the columnist Bernard Levin wrote in The Times that the Princess Royal had been canonized as a secular saint for what he called her truly admirable international work on behalf of the Save the Children Fund.
That is not the language of a friendly profile. In January 1989, Anne was thirty-eight years old. A European champion. An Olympian.
President of a global children’s charity since the age of twenty. By that January she had been Chancellor of the University of London for eight years, president of the International Governing Body of Equestrian Sport for three, and had just been made a member of the International Olympic Committee. She had been created Princess Royal eighteen months earlier. There was no part of her public life that was not working.
She was also, by then, receiving letters. Nobody knows how many. Nobody knows what was in them. And this needs saying plainly at the outset, because thirty-seven years of tabloid retelling have insisted otherwise.
The letters were written to her by Commander Timothy Laurence. They were private correspondence between two adults, one of them married, and they were kept where a woman in her position keeps such things, which is inside her own home, among her own papers, inside the palace. There is one thing on the record about their contents, and it comes from 1989 rather than from the decades of embroidery afterwards. Two people spoke to an American magazine at the time anonymously, and their descriptions are almost comically flat.
“The contents,” one said, “are not raunchy and do not suggest any intimacy, but they are written in affectionate terms. ” The other was blunter. “It is quite clear that he is potty about her, but the letters are very boring and ramble on. ” That is the sum of what the world learned about them.
A man was fond of a woman and wrote at length and not very well. Everything that has been printed since, about intimate revelations, about letters too hot to publish, about proof of an affair, rests on nothing. The letters were never published. What follows here is a story about what happens when somebody decides that a woman’s private papers belong to the public and takes them.
By the spring of 1989, the letters were sitting where she had left them. Within a few weeks, they would be in the hands of a national newspaper, and the Metropolitan Police would be investigating a theft inside Buckingham Palace. Somebody with access to her papers took the letters out of Buckingham Palace and gave them to the loudest newspaper in Britain. The letters appear to have been taken before the end of March, and the story reached the public in April, though the exact day has never been established.
They were taken from among her private papers, described in some accounts as her briefcase and in others as her desk, and the honest position is that nobody has ever established which. They were passed anonymously to The Sun, then the loudest newspaper in Britain, edited by Kelvin MacKenzie, a man whose recorded instruction to his staff on royal stories was to give him a Sunday-for-Monday splash and not to worry if it was not true, so long as there was not too much of a fuss afterwards. April 1989 was also the month of that newspaper’s Hillsborough coverage, the single biggest controversy of MacKenzie’s editorship. And with the Princess Royal’s stolen letters in its possession, it printed nothing.
By every account, it handed them to the police, and it kept the contents to itself. Whatever the reasons were, and no editor has ever explained them on the record, the loudest newspaper in Britain had the most private correspondence of the Queen’s only daughter in its hands and left it unpublished. Buckingham Palace then did something it almost never does. It confirmed the story.
The statement is thirty-eight words long, and it is the whole of what the institution has ever said about the matter. “The stolen letters were addressed to the Princess Royal by Commander Timothy Laurence, the Queen’s Equerry. We have nothing to say about the contents of personal letters sent to Her Royal Highness by a friend which were stolen and which are the subject of a police investigation. ”
Read what that does.
It names the author. It concedes the friendship. It refuses the contents. And by confirming the letters were genuine, it made the story legally safe for every other newspaper in the country to run, which is precisely what they did, for weeks, without a single line of the correspondence to quote.
The Metropolitan Police investigated a theft from inside the sovereign’s principal residence and got nowhere. Detective Chief Superintendent Roy Ramm described the ending of it with the plainness of a man who has had to make that particular visit before. They came up against a dead end, he said, and they went to the Princess and said, “Look, we are very sorry. We cannot tell you definitively who stole your letters.
” Nobody was ever identified. Nobody was ever arrested. Nobody was ever charged. There is no named suspect in any account anywhere.
No confession. No later memoir. No deathbed admission from a former servant. An insider with access to her papers, never identified, took them out and gave them away and then went on with their life.
By now a pattern had established itself in her life, and it was made of paper. In 1974, a man rented a typewriter and produced a letter addressed to her mother demanding millions for her return, and that letter told the world she was worth taking. In 1985, a birth certificate in Auckland was completed with a blank space where a father’s name should have gone, and that blank told the world nothing at all, which was its purpose. In 1989, somebody removed her own correspondence from her own house and handed it to a newspaper, and those pages spoke for her private life in her absence.
Every document that mattered in her story was written, typed, or withheld by somebody else. She never produced one of her own. What happened over the following four months is a sequence, and it needs to be told as a sequence rather than as a cause, because no source has ever established that one thing led to the other. On the 15th of August 1989, Anne turned thirty-nine and spent her birthday at Balmoral.
Timothy Laurence was reported to have been there. Her husband was not. On the 23rd of August, Laurence was appointed a Member of the Royal Victorian Order, the customary honor on leaving royal service. Eight days later, on the 31st of August, Buckingham Palace announced that the Princess Royal and Captain Mark Phillips had decided to separate on terms agreed between them, and that there were no plans for divorce proceedings.
She was in Puerto Rico at an Olympic Committee session when it went out. He was at home in Gloucestershire. She kept Gatcombe. He moved to Aston Farm, two miles down the same drive.
Peter was eleven. Zara was eight. On the 16th of September, Laurence’s appointment as equerry formally ended, and he returned to full-time naval duty. Asked about any of it by a reporter, he declined to comment.
And the woman at the center, who had been robbed inside her own home, named in every newspaper in the country in connection with a man she had not married, and separated from her husband of fifteen years inside four months, gave no interview, issued no denial, offered no explanation, corrected nothing, and blamed nobody. She said nothing. On the 21st of March 1991, a lawyer in Auckland filed a suit, and Buckingham Palace refused to say anything at all. The claim was brought by Heather Tonkin, then thirty-seven, on behalf of her daughter, who was five.
And the reason she brought it is the detail that reframes everything. The money had already been arriving for five years. What she went to court for was a legal acknowledgement that Mark Phillips was the father, because she was afraid the payments could stop at any moment, and there was nothing on paper anywhere in the world that said they were for a child of his. That is the whole architecture of the thing.
A woman went to law not to start the money but to make it real. Her story reached the public through a British newspaper, and it reached it as an exclusive. She was reportedly paid for it. That matters and should be said, not to discredit her, but because it was part of what happened to her.
An American paper reported that the London newspaper which ran it had refused to comment on claims it had paid a large sum for it. Then the counter-briefing began. The paper holding the story alleged that she had earlier demanded a million New Zealand dollars to keep silent, and released home video of the mother and child at play. Within hours of the case becoming public, Heather Tonkin and her daughter left their home.
A television bulletin the following night reported that the woman at the center of the royal paternity claim was still in hiding. Mark Phillips issued a statement through his solicitor on the 22nd of March, and it is worth reading for what it does not contain. He was, he said, extremely concerned at the distressing effect on his family caused by the intense press speculation and publicity over the past few days. The issues involved, he said, would be dealt with in the context of the proceedings, and any claims made contested.
There is no denial of paternity in those words. There is an intention to fight. The flat denial exists only in a broadcaster’s paraphrase of him that week, and in a second-hand report that he had never accepted he was the father. Buckingham Palace said nothing whatsoever.
It said nothing in March 1991, nothing in the years that followed, and nothing when the settlement was eventually reported. There is no palace statement on this matter in existence at any date. On the theft of the letters, the institution had spoken in thirty-eight careful words. On a claim that the Queen’s son-in-law had fathered a child in New Zealand and was paying for her under a false description, it never spoke at all.
Then came the part that almost every retelling erases. The popular version is that a test in 1991 settled the question and the matter closed. The contemporaneous record says otherwise, and the record is a New Zealand broadcast archive rather than a British newspaper, which is why it survived unedited. The suit was filed in March 1991.
In January 1992, London lawyers filed a statement of defense. In April 1992, a bulletin reported that the case remained unsettled despite British claims that a settlement had been reached. In April 1994, three years after the filing, another reported that paternity orders may have been granted, and still described him as the alleged father. Not until May 1996 did a bulletin report that a British newspaper alleged he had reached a financial settlement and admitted paternity.
Five years. A defense filed, still unsettled, may have been granted, alleged. And on the law itself, one correction that dismantles the tidy version completely. No New Zealand court could have compelled Mark Phillips to give a sample under the legislation then in force.
A court could recommend parentage testing. A man could refuse, and the court could draw its own conclusions and make an order anyway. The court-ordered test that appears in a hundred retellings could not have happened. Meanwhile, in London, the marriage was formally ended.
Proceedings began on Monday the 13th of April 1992, on the ground of more than two years of separation. The palace statement said that the Princess Royal and Captain Mark Phillips had agreed their marriage should be formally ended, and that her intentions regarding remarriage were a purely personal and private matter. The decree was granted ten days later, on the 23rd of April, at Somerset House. The hearing was before a senior district judge.
It lasted four minutes, and neither the husband nor the wife attended. Eighteen years of marriage, two children, a European title, an Olympic start, a kidnap attempt, and a theft from a palace concluded in four minutes in a room neither of them was in. Three days after her brother’s separation was announced, she married again in a small church in Aberdeenshire. The date was Saturday the 12th of December 1992.
The place was Crathie Kirk, the small Church of Scotland kirk near Balmoral. She was forty-two. Timothy Laurence was thirty-seven. And the reason the wedding took place in Aberdeenshire rather than London, in a building that holds a few dozen people, came down to doctrine rather than privacy or sentiment.
The Church of England would not marry her. It would not solemnize the marriage of a divorced person while a former spouse was still living, and it did not permit its clergy to make that decision for themselves until 2002, a full decade later. The Church of Scotland took a different view. It does not regard marriage as a sacrament, and it had no objection to the remarriage of divorced persons in the right circumstances.
Anne is a member of the Church of Scotland when she is in Scotland. So the daughter of the Supreme Governor of the Church of England was married by another church in another country because her own would not have her. And the Supreme Governor of the Church of England came and sat in the pews and watched. Around thirty guests were inside the kirk.
About five hundred well-wishers stood outside in the December cold. The press was barred from the ceremony and lined the road from Balmoral instead. Prince Philip walked his daughter down the aisle. The Queen Mother was there, and Princess Margaret, and all three of Anne’s brothers.
Peter Phillips was fifteen. Zara Phillips was eleven, and she was her mother’s bridesmaid. The Princess of Wales did not come. Her own separation had been announced three days earlier, on the 9th of December, and by every account she sent her good wishes and stayed away rather than turn her sister-in-law’s wedding into a press siege.
The Duchess of York was absent too. 1992 was the year the Queen would call, in a speech at the Guildhall, her “horrible year. ” Windsor Castle had burned in November. Three of her children’s marriages had collapsed.
And in the middle of the wreckage, in a church that seats a fraction of Westminster Abbey, one of those children quietly got it right. There was no state gown. Anne wore a simple white suit with white blossoms in her hair. Laurence wore Royal Navy uniform.
Her engagement ring was a cabochon sapphire with three small diamonds on each side. They took a vow to stay together until God shall separate us by death. Afterwards there was a private reception at a lodge on the Balmoral estate, and that was the whole event. The tabloids reached for history and mostly got it wrong.
She was called the first royal to remarry since Henry VIII, which is nonsense, because Henry’s early marriages were annulled rather than dissolved. What can be said accurately is narrower and more interesting. She was the first of the Queen’s four children to divorce, and the first senior member of the immediate royal family to divorce and then remarry in the modern era. Her aunt Margaret had divorced in 1978 and never remarried.
The last comparable case was a granddaughter of Queen Victoria who divorced in 1901 and married again in 1915. Anne gave no interview about it. She has never described the wedding, the decision, the choice of country, or the man. That marriage has now lasted thirty-three years and seven months.
It is the only one of the four royal marriages that fell apart in that period to have been followed by a second that held. For twenty-one years after the divorce, her former husband lived two miles down the same drive. Aston Farm sits on the Gatcombe estate, the 230 acres that were bought in the late 1970s to enlarge it. Mark Phillips moved there at the separation in 1989 and stayed after the divorce, and when he married the American Dr.
Sandy Pflueger in February 1997, he brought her to the farm. Their daughter Stephanie was born that October. So from the end of the 1990s, the arrangement at Gatcombe was this. The Princess Royal and her second husband in the main house.
Her first husband, his second wife, and their small daughter in the farmhouse across the land. For years Phillips ran an international horse trials on his former wife’s lawn, and the public bought tickets to it. Stephanie Phillips grew up there, close to her half-brother and half-sister. She was a bridesmaid at Zara’s wedding.
When she married in July 2022, Princess Anne attended. Mark Phillips left Aston Farm in 2013, after twenty-one years, and moved to the United States, and Zara and Mike Tindall took the farmhouse, where they live now with their three children. On the other side of the world, the other daughter was building a life nobody in Gloucestershire attended any part of. She qualified from Massey University in 2010 and was awarded the Equine Prize in her final year.
She joined a veterinary practice at Karaka, south of Auckland, at the end of that year, went on to post-graduate study with an English university, and is now a director of the practice. Her own professional page says she grew up locally at Whitford and lists her interests as her husband and their son. She married an English polo player from Sussex in March 2015 at Karaka, and no member of her father’s family was there. Their son was born in July 2017.
By every account, she has never met her half-brother or her half-sister. When a reporter reached her husband, he said they were delighted with the baby and glad to have him in their lives, and waved away every question about whether a grandchild might repair anything. She has spoken publicly once, and even that was at one remove. In July 2011, twelve days before Zara’s wedding, a royal editor reported that she had discussed with a friend whether to tell her side of it.
The words are hers, but she did not say them to a journalist. She had thought about telling her side of the story, she told the friend, but she was not sure there was much point. She did not want to create bother for them. She liked her life quiet.
She just liked getting on with it. Her grandmother, the cot death doctor, put the family position in one sentence to the same paper. “Zara has never been in touch with her,” she said. “Nobody has.
” The same woman described a girl who had played a lot of sport at school, who loved horses, who went to Pony Club and won the odd ribbon and never competed seriously, and who was happy leading her own life. They had not even watched William and Catherine’s wedding that April, she said, meaning the one the whole world watched. Set the two daughters side by side, and the arrangement becomes very plain. One grew up on the Princess Royal’s estate, stood in a bridal party for her daughter, and had a princess at her own wedding.
The other grew up on the far side of the planet, paid for under a heading that named a service rather than a child, and by her family’s account has never been contacted at all. Neither of them chose any of it. Only one of them was ever asked to keep quiet about it. On the 6th of June 2026, Peter Phillips married for the second time at a church in Gloucestershire.
Stephanie was there in the pews, the half-sister who grew up on the estate. The other one was in New Zealand, where she has always been and where nobody had asked her to come. Everyone else in the story eventually talked, including the man who shot four people to try to take her away. Ian Ball spent roughly forty-five years in secure psychiatric hospitals.
He was released in 2019 and has lived in the community under restriction ever since, and the release was never publicly announced. He self-published a book about it in 2023. And in 2025, aged seventy-seven, he gave an interview to a newspaper. He said he was an innocent and sane man, because he had good reason to believe the gunpowder had been taken out of the bullets.
He said the whole point of what he called the hoax was publicity, so that he could write his autobiography. He said he had not frightened her, and that he had been more frightened than she was. Asked whether he would apologize to the men he shot, he said it would be a waste of time. Bullets were surgically removed from three of those men.
A fourth was left carrying one in his liver. Her brother went on television in 1994 and confessed to adultery. Her sister-in-law went on television in 1995 and dismantled the family from inside a BBC studio. Both interviews are historical events now, argued over, re-examined, one of them the subject of a judicial inquiry into how it was obtained.
The gunman published a book. The mother in Auckland sold her story. The half-sister spoke to a friend who spoke to a reporter. Anne gave the world engagements instead.
540 in 2017. 518 in 2018, more than any other working member of the family. 474 in 2024, again the highest in the family, in a year when she lost most of the summer. On the evening of the 23rd of June that year, something happened to her on the Gatcombe estate, believed to have involved a horse, and the palace has never confirmed what.
She was taken to hospital in Bristol with concussion and injuries to her head, and discharged five days later. She has no memory of the incident, which makes it the second head injury of her life she cannot recall, the first being at the Montreal Olympics in 1976. She was back at work within weeks. She turned seventy-five in August 2025 and completed 478 engagements that year.
She once said the only thing she has ever offered on the subject of being looked at. When she appears in public, she said, people expect her to neigh, grind her teeth, paw the ground, and swish her tail. None of which is easy. That is as close as she has ever come to describing what it is like.
Somebody walked into Buckingham Palace in the spring of 1989 and took a handful of pages out of her private papers, and every version of what those pages meant was written by other people. The newspaper that held them chose not to print them. The police could not say who took them. The palace gave the world thirty-eight words.
And the one person who had read every line, who knew exactly what was in them and what they were worth and what they cost her, has been asked about it for thirty-seven years and has answered every time in the same way. She said nothing.